Interview: Choosing a Spouse – Pitfalls to Avoid
As Catholic parents, one of the biggest hopes we have is for our children to become a priest/religious, or if God calls otherwise, to find the right spouse in life.
As Catholic parents, one of the biggest hopes we have is for our children to become a priest/religious, or if God calls otherwise, to find the right spouse in life.
Let us consider how we, as Catholic parents, can share with our children what the Church actually teaches on same-sex attraction, and very importantly too, how we are called to respond to persons with SSA as brothers and sisters in Christ.
What if our child tells us that he or she is “gay” or “lesbian”? How should we respond? Amidst the turmoil of emotions many of us might feel, Mr Nicholas Gabriel Lim shares with us some useful tips to help us respond.
Why do we have sexual desire? What is it for? What should we do with it? Suppress it? Indulge in it? Or is there another way? We discuss God’s plan for sexual desire, and how we can direct it in a way that helps us find true love and happiness.
The Catholic Church has often been accused of being anti-science, and the saga involving Galileo Galilei is commonly used to illustrate this point. Mr Nick Chui shares with us insights into what actually happened in the Church’s interaction with Galileo.
How can we help our children (and ourselves) manage examination stress? What should our attitude be towards examinations, and education in general?
About 800 students were referred to the Health Sciences Authority (HSA) for vaping offences in 2022. Why are our young drawn to this practice which we know is hazardous to health? What can we parents do to help them avoid it?
One of the best ways we can be gift to our children is by living a sacramental marriage founded on the love of Christ and His Church. And many of us have entered marriage thinking that it would be a case of “living happily ever after”.
It is always heartening to hear from teens as to how we can use social media safely and responsibly. Here is some advice from some teens to others as to how they can do just that.
The Ministry of Health released new screen time guidelines for children in 2023. In this interview, Ms Natalie Lim, Principal Psychologist, shares with us how these guidelines can be implemented for our children.
A recent report, that should concern any parent, noted that more youth aged 19 and below committed sexual crimes in 2023, 470 to be exact, about 30 per cent more than in 2022. One of the main reasons cited was their exposure to pornography.
What is masculinity in the first place? Is authentic masculinity really toxic? Or is it a disordered version of it that is the cause of much of the woes that we see in our families and society today?
We have embarked on this series on “Gender Theory” in an endeavour to shed some light on this seemingly complicated topic through the lens of reason and faith.
How did Gender Theory originate? What were the philosophical ideas that have caused the cultural confusion we are witnessing today in some societies? Who was Dr John Money, and how did he contribute to this idea that gender is a mere social construct?
Some of the most liberal countries which had initially promoted “gender-affirming treatment” and transition for the young have now gone back on their policies and put a hold on this practice. Here, we discuss the medical evidence (or lack thereof) that contributed to this U-turn.
Approaching gender theory as a concept is totally different from approaching the person who experiences gender dysphoria, often in a very painful way. We interview Mr Nicholas Gabriel Lim, Psychologist, Counsellor and Legal Practitioner, who shares with us how we can journey with persons who experience gender dysphoria, in truth and in love.
We explore the medical issues underlying Disorders of Sex Development (DSD), whereby certain rare disorders of sex development can cause some individuals to not exhibit the full features of one sex or the other.
What has the Church actually said on the topic of gender theory? And why? What’s the big deal about being male and female? Why did God make us that way? What should we make of Gender Ideology? How should we regard those who experience gender dysphoria?
Marriage is the foundation of our family. The stronger our marriage, the more we love one another, the better we can give our children a stable, positive and nurturing environment to flourish in. In other words, stronger marriage, stronger family, happier children.
One of the challenges married couples face, especially in the earlier years of marriage, is to understand and speak the language of love that our spouse identifies more strongly with. We explore how couples can seek to understand, and speak, their spouse’s love language.
When was the last time you affirmed your spouse? And how frequently do you do this? For our relationships to thrive, we need to affirm our spouses on a regular basis.
How can parents help their children grow in faith and virtue? What are the foundational pillars of formation that can support our children on this journey? What can Catholic parents in mixed marriages do to carry out their mission in this area?
When was the last time we went on an exclusive date as husband and wife? How often do we make time for each other as husband and wife? Exclusively, without our kids around?
As Catholic parents, one of the biggest hopes we have is for our children to become a priest/religious, or if God calls otherwise, to find the right spouse in life.
Let us consider how we, as Catholic parents, can share with our children what the Church actually teaches on same-sex attraction, and very importantly too, how we are called to respond to persons with SSA as brothers and sisters in Christ.
What if our child tells us that he or she is “gay” or “lesbian”? How should we respond? Amidst the turmoil of emotions many of us might feel, Mr Nicholas Gabriel Lim shares with us some useful tips to help us respond.
Why do we have sexual desire? What is it for? What should we do with it? Suppress it? Indulge in it? Or is there another way? We discuss God’s plan for sexual desire, and how we can direct it in a way that helps us find true love and happiness.
The Catholic Church has often been accused of being anti-science, and the saga involving Galileo Galilei is commonly used to illustrate this point. Mr Nick Chui shares with us insights into what actually happened in the Church’s interaction with Galileo.
How can we help our children (and ourselves) manage examination stress? What should our attitude be towards examinations, and education in general?
About 800 students were referred to the Health Sciences Authority (HSA) for vaping offences in 2022. Why are our young drawn to this practice which we know is hazardous to health? What can we parents do to help them avoid it?
One of the best ways we can be gift to our children is by living a sacramental marriage founded on the love of Christ and His Church. And many of us have entered marriage thinking that it would be a case of “living happily ever after”.
It is always heartening to hear from teens as to how we can use social media safely and responsibly. Here is some advice from some teens to others as to how they can do just that.
The Ministry of Health released new screen time guidelines for children in 2023. In this interview, Ms Natalie Lim, Principal Psychologist, shares with us how these guidelines can be implemented for our children.
A recent report, that should concern any parent, noted that more youth aged 19 and below committed sexual crimes in 2023, 470 to be exact, about 30 per cent more than in 2022. One of the main reasons cited was their exposure to pornography.
What is masculinity in the first place? Is authentic masculinity really toxic? Or is it a disordered version of it that is the cause of much of the woes that we see in our families and society today?
We have embarked on this series on “Gender Theory” in an endeavour to shed some light on this seemingly complicated topic through the lens of reason and faith.
How did Gender Theory originate? What were the philosophical ideas that have caused the cultural confusion we are witnessing today in some societies? Who was Dr John Money, and how did he contribute to this idea that gender is a mere social construct?
Some of the most liberal countries which had initially promoted “gender-affirming treatment” and transition for the young have now gone back on their policies and put a hold on this practice. Here, we discuss the medical evidence (or lack thereof) that contributed to this U-turn.
Approaching gender theory as a concept is totally different from approaching the person who experiences gender dysphoria, often in a very painful way. We interview Mr Nicholas Gabriel Lim, Psychologist, Counsellor and Legal Practitioner, who shares with us how we can journey with persons who experience gender dysphoria, in truth and in love.
We explore the medical issues underlying Disorders of Sex Development (DSD), whereby certain rare disorders of sex development can cause some individuals to not exhibit the full features of one sex or the other.
What has the Church actually said on the topic of gender theory? And why? What’s the big deal about being male and female? Why did God make us that way? What should we make of Gender Ideology? How should we regard those who experience gender dysphoria?
Marriage is the foundation of our family. The stronger our marriage, the more we love one another, the better we can give our children a stable, positive and nurturing environment to flourish in. In other words, stronger marriage, stronger family, happier children.
One of the challenges married couples face, especially in the earlier years of marriage, is to understand and speak the language of love that our spouse identifies more strongly with. We explore how couples can seek to understand, and speak, their spouse’s love language.
When was the last time you affirmed your spouse? And how frequently do you do this? For our relationships to thrive, we need to affirm our spouses on a regular basis.
How can parents help their children grow in faith and virtue? What are the foundational pillars of formation that can support our children on this journey? What can Catholic parents in mixed marriages do to carry out their mission in this area?
When was the last time we went on an exclusive date as husband and wife? How often do we make time for each other as husband and wife? Exclusively, without our kids around?
| Episode 1: Introduction | 25 December 2021 |
| Episode 2: Theology of the Body | 25 December 2021 |
| Episode 3: Priest, Prophet and King | 25 December 2021 |
| Episode 4: Jesus our Foundation | 25 December 2021 |
| Episode 5: The Church as a Pillar | 31 December 2021 |
| Episode 6: Our Marriage as a Pillar | 31 December 2021 |
| Episode 7: Connecting with our Children | 31 December 2021 |
| Episode 8: Affirmation | 7 January 2022 |
| Episode 9: Be There for Them | 14 January 2022 |
| Episode 10: Communication | 21 January 2022 |
| Episode 11: Discipline | 28 January 2022 |
| Episode 12: Empathy | 4 February 2022 |
| Episode 13: Forgiveness | 11 February 2022 |
| Episode 14: God-Centred | 18 February 2022 |
| Episode 15: Honesty | 25 February 2022 |
| Episode 16: Integrity | 4 March 2022 |
| Episode 17: Bonding Joyfully with Our Children | 11 March 2022 |
| Interview: Addressing Anxiety and Self-harm in Our Children | 18 March 2022 |
| Interview: Helping Our Children Flourish | 25 March 2022 |
| Interview: Understanding The Psychology and Importance of Affirmation | 1 April 2022 |
| Episode 18: Introduction to Sexuality Education | 22 April 2022 |
| Interview: Impact of Parents and Expectations on Our Children’s Development | 25 April 2022 |
| Episode 19: Sexuality Education – Preparing Ourselves for the Talk(s) | 29 April 2022 |
| Episode 20: Understanding Sexual Desire | 6 May 2022 |
| Episode 21: Chastity – Same as Celibacy? | 13 May 2022 |
| Episode 22: Empowering Our Children for Chastity | 20 May 2022 |
| Episode 23: Talking to Our Children About Sexuality – Pre-school | 27 May 2022 |
| Episode 24: Talking to Our Children About Sexuality – 6 to 9 Years Old | 3 Jun 2022 |